I keep coming back to the word bhava in early suttas, especially the dependent-origination lists in SN 12.2 and SN 12.21. For me, it works best as a present-tense condition: clinging leads to becoming, becoming to birth, then to ageing and death. It is a map of how experience tightens, not a moral verdict about who we are.
I wonder how others read it. Do you treat becoming as a process in the moment, a tendency in the body-mind, or something that spans lives? Where does the teaching stay open to correction, and where does it harden into a slogan? I am especially interested in plain language for newcomers: how do we say enough about craving and becoming without turning it into a test of whether someone is doing it right?