In zazen, the body settles, the breath appears, and the mind may begin to tidy the moment into a story: I am practising, I am improving, I am a beginner. The labels are useful, like a handrail. But sometimes the handrail becomes the walk.
I am curious about the place where a practice is named just enough to be shared, but not so much that it becomes an identity. When a beginner says “I am sitting,” is that a helpful cue, a small report, or a gentle boundary? When a long-sitter says “I am not a meditator,” is that humility, a trick of the ego, or a refusal to be pinned down?
I would love replies from people who lean toward plain terms, from people who like the dharma language, and from people who prefer to say almost nothing. What phrase has helped a sit stay open? What phrase has turned a practice into a badge, a score, or a self-portrait?
Maybe the question is not whether to use a name, but whether the name can be set down after use.