Can a simple question keep practice from becoming a test?
I keep coming back to a small habit: after a sitting, ask, “Did attention widen or narrow?” It is not proof, not a score, not a badge. It is a check on whether the practice is becoming a performance.
I’m wary of turning the teachings into a checklist. If a precept becomes a rule, it can harden. If it stays a question, it may keep the heart open. I’m thinking of the Buddha’s teaching on right intention, where intention is less about what we want to prove and more about what we are willing to notice.
Where is the line between a helpful cue and a self-judging ledger? I’d like to hear from people who keep practice plain, and from people who find a little shape useful. What question do you ask yourself after sitting, and what do you do when the answer is awkward?